Craft Basics
By: Keitha (FireWind)
You’ve made them, I’ve made them, we’ve all seen them.. the
dreaded ‘beginner fluffy bunny mistakes’. These are the common
mistakes that all beginners make at some point and other Wiccans
groan at. These are the pitfalls that we have all fallen into at
least once (or twice) during the learning curve. And this isn’t
your ‘mispronunciations during ritual’ pitfalls, either. Some of
these are merely annoying to others, and some have serious
implications. Most will make you grin abashedly in a year or so.
Not that I’m saying that you shouldn’t make these mistakes at least
once. It’s a great learning experience to suddenly realize that
you’ve recently been acting, well… a little strange. That maybe
the reason people stare at you isn’t because you wear a Pentacle;
it’s because it’s three inches across. And don’t feel too
embarrassed, I’ve done most of these myself at one point or
another.
Pitfall #1: ‘I Read it in this Book…’
One of the first important things to learn is to not believe
everything you read. Just because it’s in print doesn’t necessarily
mean it’s true. Be a critical reader. Don’t even believe me, I’m
just one person and I make lots of mistakes, too. Get opposing
opinions and figure out what You believe. Goddess, if you only saw
how many times I’ve stared horrified at my monitor at a beginner
website with all the wrong information. Please be a critical reader.
Pitfall #2: Overenthusiasm
Enthusiasm is great… it’s wonderful! Enjoy this time of awareness,
of excitement and the golden aura of everything! But also be careful
of overenthusiasm. While it is possible you were Wiccan in your last
lifetime, it is very unlikely that you’ve been a Witch since the
beginning of time or that your cat was indeed an attendant in a
Temple to Isis. You grandmother probably didn’t initiate you at age
5, and you probably didn’t inherit all the knowledge of your now
Wiccan ancestors. I’m not trying to step on your beliefs or hurt
your feelings, but please be reasonable. There are over 6 Billion
people on this planet, and very few Witches in the last few
centuries; what makes you think you are a reincarnated Witch? Like I
said, it is quite possible, but it’s not the point. Whether you were
or weren’t has no bearing on who you are now. You will never again
be the person you are RIGHT NOW; what better person can you be? As
the saying goes: ‘What you cannot find within, you will never find
without’.
Another issue to be aware of is being really excited about Wicca.
This is wonderful, and I’m glad you feel proud of your decision to
study Wicca. But daring people to disagree with you so you can tell
them What Wicca Really Is is not the way to go. In fact, this is
barely disguised prosthletizing, and this is something we just don’t
do. You will need to learn to depend on yourself, and sometimes
others will just never understand. That’s their right, and it’s not
your job to try and change their mind. The Christian standing in
front of you never burned anyone at the stake and probably never
will. They’re not out to get you, and if they wanted to be Wiccan,
they would be. Remember that the Witchcraft of the Burning Times is
not the Wicca of today. Don’t tell people what the Wiccan way is
really about – show them by your own wisdom and maturity.
Pitfall #3: ‘Wicca is as Wicca does’
Wicca has nothing to do with Tarot Cards, Seances, Dowsing, Pendulums, Psychic Fairs, and especially Ouija boards. A new moon ritual does not involve calling up Fluffy or Uncle Bob from the grave. I don’t know any Wiccans who use Ouija boards and frankly the things concern me. I’ve never attended or heard of a ‘Wiccan Seance’.
That being said, there are things here that Wiccans may like to do.
I use the Tarot to advise me when I need perspective in my life. I
do free readings for those who need it. I sometimes use a pendulum;
I am learning about Runes. I may learn other forms of Divination in
future. I don’t charge money for Tarot readings if the person needs
it, and you probably won’t find me exhibiting at any psychic fairs.
None of these things have anything to do with Wicca. If you dream of
something that comes to pass, it’s not because you’re Wiccan; it’s
because you are a sensitive human being. Smelling snow on the wind
and celebrating the return of spring – this is Wicca. Sensing
vibrations through a pendulum – this is not Wicca. This is something
a Wiccan person may, or may not, have interest in. Wicca is a set of
beliefs and a way of living; it is not fortune telling or the tools
thereof.
Pitfall #4: Degrees and Titles
Dedicant, Initiate, 2nd Degree, High Priestess… how do I get these
titles? Actually, unless you are part of an established tradition,
don’t count on the titles themselves meaning much. I was dedicated
as a solitary by an eclectic coven 3 months after I heard of Wicca
and dedicant I have ever remained (as of this writing). Oh, if I
wanted I could initiate myself as a solitary; hell, I could initiate
myself a 3rd degree Master of Bubblegum Wicca if I really felt like
it. But that would get me nothing and nowhere, fast. As a solitary,
a Dedication is a good place to start. You can do it by yourself,
and you never need be initiated. Remember, it is the Gods alone who
initiate. I’ve seen ‘covens’ of three people where the ‘3rd Degree
High Priestess’ was chosen because she had been studying for a few
more months. This degree is meaningless and you are doing yourself,
and the Craft, a disservice by using it. In the absence of
an ‘official’ system of degrees, a title is only as good as it’s
wearer. You can call yourself a High Priestess until you are blue in
the face, it still doesn’t mean squat unless you actually are.
Generally, it takes a year or two of hard work to earn initiation.
2nd Degree is much harder and may never be reached. 3rd Degree -
good luck. My advice, as always, is to be yourself. Don’t claim to
be something you are not, because others will know. Be proud of who
you really are.
Pitfall #5: Spells
Spells are cool. Spells involve cool words and candles and powers
and energy, and you can make things happen.
This is true; spells do involve all these things and more. But be
aware that spells are generally a last-resort ‘I don’t know how to
deal with this’ action. It’s not that spells are bad or wrong; it’s
just you don’t have to tinker with every aspect of life. In my 3
years of studying Wicca, I’ve done maybe 10 spells maximum, and none
of them recently. Why? I don’t need to right now. I have four walls
and a roof, I eat, I work, I have transportation and I can pay my
bills. I have family, friends and health. None of my friends are in
any immediate need that I know of. I am truly a blessed person. If I
have a financial crisis I will get another job. If I have a health
crisis I will see a doctor. If my car breaks down I will take it to
a mechanic. If I decide I have been single long enough I will go out
and meet people. If, however, the car is unrepairable, I will really
have a problem and then may consider a spell. And the spell will not
come from a book or a website or a friend. I will do whatever is
meaningful for me at the time. Whether I chant, meditate, or dance
around a big green candle doesn’t matter worth a damn. It doesn’t
really matter whether I do it at new moon or full moon or midmorning
or the hour of Saturn while Mercury is in the right house and the
moon isn’t void of course. It doesn’t matter if I call the elements
or the watchtowers or the elementals. It doesn’t really matter if I
call Mercury or Hecate. It doesn’t matter if I do it robed, disrobed
or painted yellow and purple polkadots. It doesn’t matter if I do it
standing on my head. It doesn’t matter if I do it in English or
Japanese or pig latin. No spell has power. You are the power, and
you must respond to need when need arises. How could someone
else’s ’spells’ express the meaning of your situation? Writing your
own rituals and doing your own magick makes far more sense.
Pitfall #6: Coming Out of the Closet
Now, you’re studying Wicca, you’ve picked up a Ravenwolf or a
Cunningham and visited the ‘Voice. You’re doing rituals and actually
starting to get the hang of this. What now? Tell the world!! …
Whoa there, hold on! Think about this. The closet is there for a
reason; let’s look at this for a minute. In Africa, today, now, in the next few hours, someone may be
brutally murdered because they were accused of Witchcraft. Whether
or not they are or aren’t doesn’t matter. Just an accusation. This
culture exists a mere plane ride away. In North America, today, now, in the next few hours, someone may be
forced into a mental institution for practicing Wicca. Some
institutions believe that practicing modern Witchcraft is a sign of
mental distress or social maladjustment. This has happened in my
hometown. In North America, today and now, someone is losing a job for being
Pagan; someone is losing a friend. Someone is polishing a gun and
muttering about the ‘baby killers’. Someone is holding community
action meetings to deal with the ‘Wiccan threat’. As you now begin to feel that cold sinking feeling near your gut, do
you begin to see why there is a closet to be ‘in’? This is
frightening, absolutely. But is is also one of the first lessons
Wicca has to teach us: ‘To Know, to Dare, to Will, to be Silent’. If
you choose to come out of the closet, things in your life will
change, and perhaps not the way you intend. Are you prepared for
this?I say these things because I care, and I want you to understand what
this is about. I know people who have been harassed by students and
teachers at school. I get hate mail. I follow the news. Is this
something you feel prepared to handle? Now for the good news: on the whole, on a daily basis, my experience
has led me to understand that it’s not usually that bad. Most of my
friends have been wonderfully supportive. Professors have never
given me a hard time. Employers have been very tolerant. I’ve had
religious friends- Christian and Muslim and Buddhist, none of which
had any interest in Wicca, but who were very tolerant. Keep in mind that there are various degrees of ‘out’. At what point
do you become out: Buying a book in the local store, telling family,
telling friends, wearing a pentacle, telling co-workers, telling
employers, writing to a newspaper, dancing naked down main street,
leading a national campaign for Witches Rights? Where does ‘out’
start? One lesson Paganism has to teach us is how not to box
yourself in with labels. What is the difference between an ‘out’
Wiccan and an ‘in’ one? Which one suits you best?
Pitfall #7: Balancing Facts and Emotions
Is it important to know what element goes in what corner? Yes. Is it
important to know why, the historical basis and significance cross -
referenced by culture? Probably not at the beginner level. Facts are
important, but emotions are, too. Study the basics, they are vital.
But leave lots and lots and lots of room for personal expression.
Wicca is a learning process, and a lot of that learning will be
about yourself. It’s all about balance. If you find you are more
worried about candle colours and places than you are about
celebrating, then perhaps it is time for a readjustment.
Pitfall #8: Making a Website
(hehe… let’s just try to ignore the fact that I’m writing this
for, and you’re reading this from, my personal Wiccan website. Let’s
also try to forget that I started this site ‘before I was ready’ a
mere year and a half after I first picked up a book. Hey, I told you
I’ve made most of these mistakes at least once.
Anyways, we know you’re excited about finding Wicca, and you want to
tell the world about this wonderful discovery you’ve made. But
please, PLEASE sit down and think about this first. Is there
anything you can tell the world about Wicca that hasn’t already been
said a hundred times (or more)? And if so, does it warrant an entire
website to say it? If not, instead of creating an entire website by
yourself, why not write a page to say what you have to say and
publish it to a larger website? You will reach a much wider audience
while not having to go through the ‘We don’t Worship the Devil’
routine. Believe me, both you and every other beginner already knows
this, otherwise you wouldn’t be studying Wicca, right? Non-seekers
also know this by the time they get to your site. Offering up ‘What
Wicca is’ as a main page only causes visitors to skip what they
already know, and possibly your entire site. There are many quality
websites, EZines and magazines/newslette rs that will publish your
article; you should be able to find them easily at a search engine.
If you truly do have to create a site, please at least read these
guidelines first. 1. Please don’t use the same gold spinning Pentacle that everyone
else uses. Thankyou.
2. Do NOT use other people’s pages without permission!! ! No matter
how large or small the site, no matter how known or unknown the
author! I’ve seen said yellow spinning Pentacle used as a background
for a Witches Voice page done in yellow text. When I told Witchvox
(and generally someone will), we both agreed it was the most hideous
thing we’d ever seen. Not only did this person steal the page and
the graphic, but even the code was ripped from the Voice. Please be
respectful and tasteful. 3. Don’t put the ‘We Don’t Worship the Devil’ info on your main
page. If it has to be there, please just link to it. Don’t make me
and other people have to read this stuff which we so obviously know.
Write for Wiccans, or write for non-Wiccans, but please choose your
audience. 4. Spells. I can’t tell you whether or not you should publish
spells. Generally, though, people who know what they’re doing write
their own, and you are karmically responsible for those who don’t. 5. Graphic Mania. Believe me, adding a ton of beautiful graphics
does not help you improve the image of Wicca or get your point
across. In fact, by the time half the images have loaded, the
visitor is long gone. Decent webpage design means less than 35
seconds of load – on 56k dial-up. Good webpage design means less
than 20 seconds. Professional sites with high volume load in 10
seconds or less. If your site takes longer than 35 seconds
from ‘click’ to ‘done’, your site needs to get nekked fast. (Hint:
add up the file sizes of all the images and text on your page. If
it’s under 50k including images you’re doing just fine).
Pitfall #9: Ritual Tools
You don’t need any Tools. Really. Tools will not help you be
a ‘better Wiccan’, no matter how much money you spend. You will
never be considered a ’serious Wiccan’ by other ’serious Wiccans’
just because you have the biggest/nicest athame. Do your rituals
using no tools at all. Now you can begin to get some work done.
Pitfall #10: Other Common Mistakes
Wicca is not more logical than other religions. We make as little
sense as any other religion. In fact, it’s quite possible we make
even less sense. If you want a logical ‘religion’, try Atheism; it’s
the only one that can be even remotely ‘proven’.
Finally, someone studying for 6 months can know and understand more
than someone studying for 8 years. Don’t count ‘Years Studying’ as a
guide to knowledge and understanding. If you spend 6 months
obsessively studying you will probably understand more than someone
who has been ’studying’ (read 3 books) in 8 years. Like degrees, be
careful of titles and claims.
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